People tend to use kid gloves on the immature members who will gquit in anger if you say the wrong thing.
People recognize the mature members who won't gquit when offended.
Sometimes, this means the mature get less consideration than the immature, simply because the guild wants to avoid a fuss. In one case, it meant the mature Myself got disrespected so that the Immature People would calm down, simply because I could be trusted not to kick up dirt about it.
This kind of thing sucks. I was so furious back then, I wanted to gquit, but that's why I'm considered one of the stable, mature, sensible ones. I didn't. Because gquitting in a huff is stupid.
Sometimes you don't win if you're the mature one.